''Between your spouse and kids, who should come first?'' Adaeze Yobo asks on Instagram

Adaeze Yobo asked her followers this question on Instagram. She wrote

''Hey lovers ? Sooo i have this very uncomfortable question that I sometimes struggle with the answer.
Who do you think should come first in your life, your Spouse or your kids and why? *dudududuuun??‍??
For me, my husband comes first but I feel uncomfortable saying it sometimes? I don't know if it's same with him cos he is obsessed with all our kids. maybe I'll ask him cc @jyobo234 ? ?‍??''