Nollywood actress, Amanda Ebeye, has opened up on the father of her baby boy. The actress, who recently welcomed her son in Canada, spoke to Saturday Beats and gave reasons why she decided against marrying her son's father. In her words:
“I did not marry the father of my child because he is not my husband and he is not meant to be. I could have been in the most useless relationship right now if I wanted but I told myself instead of giving my son this shameless pretender and liar of a man as a father, I would take care of him and he will be fine. .
I tell you that since I took that stance, I’ve not looked back for one day and God keeps giving me the strength to move on. If it is God’s, one day a good man will come and you’ll be invited to my wedding but for now, I’m single and all that matters to me is my son.
On being slammed by the public for this decision she said:
“I didn’t feel bad because we are all entitled to our opinions. Most people don’t know what other people go through but they are fast to bury them. .
We all hide behind our beautiful make-up and clothes that people forget that we all cry sometimes. And the most painful part is that it is mostly women that do these criticisms. .
Some are even going through worse situations but they come on social media, wearing make-up and fine clothes and start commenting but when they go home, their husbands would slap them for not cooking their food early, and they receive it with smiles, walk away and say I’m fighting for my man. Hypocrites!”
The man is shameless and a pretender. But he was able to get through to you, sleep with you protected,and even sleep with you unprotected, then finally inpregnate you. The person who is a pretender is actually becoming clear.
ReplyDeleteIt would be nice to know details of this so called 'useless'man and get the man's side of the story. Most women in public eye who are used to having things done for them are rarely able to settle with a husband and be humble.
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